A 20 year old man, hand holds more than 100 cigarettes bright-coloured rose, at the door stood for three hours only to think and unrequited love already a long time of girl meet. The matter was a reporter discovery, the results on the newspaper. According to psychologist said, like guy such people in life is not rare, many adults have all the bitter and embarrassed. Love Although unrequited love may occur in all ages, but 14 to 22 years old age of multiple, Peking University institute of mental health therapy TangDengHua professor department director said, unrequited love for one simple reason, this age adolescent girls, especially love addicted to fantasy, again not good at self control. Unrequited love nine out of ten enthusiastic, impulsive, persistence, but in the party by unrequited love is not, it seems, and outsiders may, not reality, sometimes even funny. Tang professor says, in the eyes of people seem more women than men, but in fact become amorous, men who love active party significantly more than women, this is because men sexual fantasy are often more bold than women unrestrained. Unrequited love although everyone experiences, but processes is not good, can also cause psychological problems, because of unrequited love, affect the job and life that cannot social responsibility, but also affects the work and life of others. In this case, if can't receive timely psychological adjustment, serious, he would appear self-injury tendency. Unrequited love person often get into extremely embarrassing, depressed and annoyance situation, and affect not only academic, career, and affect physical and mental health. So, how to get rid of unrequited love troubles? Tang professor considered, first, must recognize that love is men and women both parties of consensual, check whether oneself produced unrealistic expectations or may not answered. If be coming to oneself the bum unilaterally disprove. As the saying goes, forced love does not last. Love is cannot importune, more can't go begging. Secondly, people in unrequited love, always hard to control his anger, work involuntarily, life erratic, thus affecting academic, business, even can produce some bad behavior or desire, right now can see movies, travel, make oneself of the attention by opposing transfer to other life content up, eliminate your troubles. Finally, unrequited love person do not long-term the pain buried in the bottom of my heart, taste, make oneself long-term alone in anguish and annoyance, which affect the physical and mental health, and should seek their own relatives friend pour out the heart trouble and pain, in order to reduce the load on their heart. If these methods are invalid, can seek the aid of a psychiatrist.